We manifest our inner world and unfortunately, we do a bad job at recognizing how we miscreate. How did you create suffering in your life? So for me, here are some of the ways I did it. I still do some of them but it is decreasing.
The most common ways we create suffering is through entertainment. Recognizing what you are consuming can definitely help in reducing your suffering.
TV Shows
Shows contribute a lot as they are the number 1 form of entertainment in the world. Unfortunately, shows are very low vibration. They are often filled with victimization, bullying, and revenge.
A few weeks ago, I was watching my grandmother. I often will watch over her since she has dementia. She was watching Filipino shows. There was this restaurant show about a girl, she was the main protagonist and the show also had a villainess. The villainess, all she does is bother the main character. Like every episode she would bully her, sabotage her plans, create havoc in her life, steal her boyfriend, steal her family, ruin her reputation and so on. The villainess would do this every episode.
One day, my grandmother started bothering me. She was demanding my parents. She was demanding to go out. She was demanding a lot of stuff. I was like, how did this happen? What were we doing together that we created this thing? I realized that it is the tv show. After that day, no more low vibrational shows for her. She could watch game shows while she is with me. She could watch low vibrational shows while with my parents but not with me. We are not going to be co-creating some sort of hero and villain type of scenario.
I am not going to be the hero. She was not going to be the villain. We are not going to play this scenario where the villain annoys the crap out of the hero everyday. Do I want someone annoying me, bothering me, making my life miserable, everyday? No… no no no. We are not going to play that game. We are not going to do that. Never going to do that again. She can do that with my parents but we will never co-create that kind of scenario ever again. So after that day, I don’t let her watch low vibrational shows filled with victimization, suffering, or becoming a hero. We are going to watch game shows where people win money. That is good enough.
Suffering
Suffering is often the theme in a lot of shows and entertainment. If you are suffering greatly in your life, you are watching too many shows with suffering. If you want a happier life, a life filled with love, then you should avoid shows that feature suffering. Common shows are Doctor shows, medical shows, detective shows, and so on. If you are suffering from diseases, you may also be watching a lot of these shows.
Conflict
Shows about conflict are common. If you are getting bullied, getting victimized, getting scammed, and so on, then you are watching too many shows with conflicts. Superhero shows, marvel shows, and games. Games have a lot of conflict in them. If your life is filled with conflict, you play too much video games. I know this because i used to get lots of conflict in my life. They disappeared now.
Lack Of Money
There are also lots of shows whose main themes are lack of money. If you are having problems with money, then you are often watching these shows. In my life, watching porn can lead to lack of money. This is the only place I know where I see lack of money everywhere. In my mind, these girls are so desperate and so poor that they do porn. Which is not even true, a lot of these girls are multi-millionaires. A lot of women make millions in onlyfans. In my mind, I see them as poor and desperate women. I don’t know where this type of mindset came from? Maybe I was a pimp in my last life, I don’t know. But this mindset is being removed and my finances are increasing.
In our minds
In our minds, there are lots and lots of low vibrational programs. These programs or beliefs, give birth to other low vibrational programs. The mind is really in chaos and when the mind is in chaos, it talks and talks and talks. It talks a lot. Without any programs, the mind will be clear like a clear sky.
The programming really starts at an early age. It starts in school. If you misbehave in school, you get punished. You are taught to comply, to do as you are told, anyone that does not obey are bad people. We saw a great example of this in Covid. Normal people literally wanted to put others in concentration camps for not taking the vax. Why are these people not obeying, these people are bad. They should be punished and so on.
There are literally thousands of programs in the mind. The lover that you want, the house that you want, the sofa, the color of the walls, and so on. All of these, you may think, are your own preferences but in reality, they were put in there.
Pain Is A Good Motivation
Pain is a good motivation to enlightenment. If you experience pain, you take enlightenment more seriously. The higher you vibrate, the less pain you manifest in your life.